Human is unique. And I like to observe human. There will no people that have same faces, eventhough they're twins. Eyes, mouths, ears, noses, hair, and so on. Can you imagine how great God's creation? So wonderful. That's only from faces. There are a lot of aspects that differentiate one with the other one. Personality characteristic, emotion, physically appearance, how they talk, how they walk, how they react for something, how their table manner, how they thinking, and how they feel. You'll never know how someone feels about something. You may know it, but you'll never exactly can feel what they feel. Maybe you can try to feel it little by little by learn a technic called empathy.

I think that's why I choose to study psychology. We have many experiences in our past that creates us today. If you have a bad experience and you can't go in peace with that, you may have a problem in your life nowadays. If you have a good experience, it may contribute a big power for your life now. That's how your past creates your present. It's all basically about learn, learn, and learn.

I also a human. I also have some good and bad experiences. And now, after I have studying psychology for almost 4 years, I realized and I could identified what's the root of my behaviors, my thinking, my values, and so on. Can I change all my bad because of the false learning? Yes, of course, but it's not as simple as I think. I have a lot of knowledges about therapy, how to fix our bad personality, how to think better, but when I practice it to myself, that's really hard to do. First, it's hard to accept that we have that bad thing. Second, it lasted from I was a little girl many teen years ago. Third, that's hurt when you try to forget your pain in your past, but you have to call it back and try to fix it. Why you have to call it back? Should it be? Yes. If you want to get healed, you have to know what's the cause of your pain, and to know that, you have to remember about it, you have to call that moment again. Difficult, of course, but I'm sure I can do it. So do you.

It takes time. Short or long, it depends on you. But, you can. Remember, success never comes easily. Make an effort for that, and you'll get your dreamy life. Be patient, bring it in your pray, keep your spirit ahead, and you can yell, DREAMY LIFE, I''M COMING! ;)